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The return of sexual fantasy

My fantasy life has returned and brought creative expression along with it.

May 30, 2022

The return of sexual fantasy

May 30, 2022

PL James

Submissive ecstasy, femininity and desire

La Maison du Rouge, former collaboration of NY dominatrices Dia Dynasty and Lucy Sweetkill did a series of interviews with a wide variety…

May 7, 2022

Submissive ecstasy, femininity and desire

May 7, 2022

PL James

The sin of being easy on the self and hard on others

We are taught in Western culture that we should be harder on ourselves than we are on others. This pervades Judeo-Christian thinking, but…

May 4, 2022

The sin of being easy on the self and hard on others

May 4, 2022

PL James

I love my hair and don’t want to lose it.

Finding Common Cause with Cis Men as a Trans Girlie-Boy and steps you can take to keep and get back your hair.

Apr 27, 2022

I love my hair and don’t want to lose it.

Apr 27, 2022

PL James

Every trans person has a special relationship to body hair, but why is it so evocative of gender?

Thoughts from the waxing salon and experiences around the world.

Apr 26, 2022

Every trans person has a special relationship to body hair, but why is it so evocative of gender?

Apr 26, 2022

PL James

Have I become the Don Quixote of submissive men?

Tilting at windmills is an apt metaphor for chasing after things that might never exist

Apr 16, 2022

Have I become the Don Quixote of submissive men?

Apr 16, 2022

PL James

A trip down memory lane: walking past my childhood home and remembering my sexual awakening.

Disclaimer: this post contains a discussion of nappy wearing for the purposes of pleasure. Second disclaimer: that is a doctored picture of…

Apr 4, 2022

Apr 4, 2022

PL James

And honestly, why on earth do we feel as a society that it is okay for one group of people to…

Mar 30, 2022

Mar 30, 2022

PL James

Goodbye Ukraine. Your existence as a nation apparently doesn’t matter.

Would Western leaders have acted as they did towards Ukraine knowing what we know now? Would they act differently if their eyes were open?

Mar 6, 2022

Mar 6, 2022

PL James

Slavery is Freedom and other curiousities

George Orwell had it wrong when he wrote, “Freedom is slavery”. For those who have read his anti-communist “futuristic” novel 1984 (the…

Feb 21, 2022

Slavery is Freedom and other curiousities

Feb 21, 2022

PL James

PL James

Navigating the patriarchy as a gender dysphoric AMAB, father, husband, and s/he/they, submissive, author, and bon vivant

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