PL JamesThe return of sexual fantasyMy fantasy life has returned and brought creative expression along with it.·11 min read·May 30, 2022--1--1
PL JamesSubmissive ecstasy, femininity and desireLa Maison du Rouge, former collaboration of NY dominatrices Dia Dynasty and Lucy Sweetkill did a series of interviews with a wide variety…·9 min read·May 7, 2022--1--1
PL JamesThe sin of being easy on the self and hard on othersWe are taught in Western culture that we should be harder on ourselves than we are on others. This pervades Judeo-Christian thinking, but…·7 min read·May 4, 2022----
PL JamesI love my hair and don’t want to lose it.Finding Common Cause with Cis Men as a Trans Girlie-Boy and steps you can take to keep and get back your hair.·13 min read·Apr 27, 2022--1--1
PL JamesEvery trans person has a special relationship to body hair, but why is it so evocative of gender?Thoughts from the waxing salon and experiences around the world.·7 min read·Apr 26, 2022--1--1
PL JamesHave I become the Don Quixote of submissive men?Tilting at windmills is an apt metaphor for chasing after things that might never exist·19 min read·Apr 16, 2022----
PL JamesA trip down memory lane: walking past my childhood home and remembering my sexual awakening.Disclaimer: this post contains a discussion of nappy wearing for the purposes of pleasure. Second disclaimer: that is a doctored picture of…·11 min read·Apr 4, 2022----
PL JamesAnd honestly, why on earth do we feel as a society that it is okay for one group of people to…1 min read·Mar 30, 2022--3--3
PL JamesGoodbye Ukraine. Your existence as a nation apparently doesn’t matter.Would Western leaders have acted as they did towards Ukraine knowing what we know now? Would they act differently if their eyes were open?·11 min read·Mar 6, 2022----
PL JamesSlavery is Freedom and other curiousitiesGeorge Orwell had it wrong when he wrote, “Freedom is slavery”. For those who have read his anti-communist “futuristic” novel 1984 (the…·4 min read·Feb 21, 2022----
